RELATIONSHIP ADVICE AND RESPONSE


Good morning Sir. Please help me get my about to be husband back. He is 36 years, I am 29 years. He is a very nice person and our marriage was meant to be last Saturday but because of covid 19. We postponed it to be Christmas. But now he has told me that he is backing out. He said he will speak to his parents and will return to Europe when international flight starts work again. What happened was that he saw a chat I had with my married ex who dated me before he married 2016 on WhatsApp and my ex was telling me that I should send him a sexy picture, that he misses me. So I responded that I miss him too but sent him just one picture where I was on my night wear but nothing was showing. I have begged him to forgive me. I knelt down cried and since 2 weeks now I hardly eat. The worse part is that he took his engagement ring from me. He hasn't called me, blocked me everywhere, whatsapp Facebook and I cant even get him on phone . I feel like committing suicide ma. Everybody on social media know us. When he engaged me when he came back to see my parents for the first time, we posted our party here and even invited some people from our facebook friends. I don't know what to do again. He has said to me that I should go and remove our wedding invitation from Facebook because it's not happening. He has pratically deleted all my pictures on his wall. What should I do ?

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  • Segun Odunlami Let the two families intervene and pray to God too.
  • Segun Odunlami U should HV deleted all former contact or information of ur ex's in ur contact before his arrival .
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  • Amogelang Mojiwa You just allowed the devil to deceive you just like that y did you send that picture if I may ask eish he has just lost trust in you dear
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  • Elizabeth Adigun Hmm pray to God to have mercy on u cos what u did was very very bad u are engaged nd sending sexy pics to ur ex dat is married...ogao may God have mercy cos no one is above mistake.
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  • Nnenna Nwangburuk Kalu U wouldn't have send d pic....and what else are you having with ur ex...pls invite his close friends to speak to him... it's well dear
  • Possible Chris Olubayo You need prayer OO
  • Oladipupo Mathew Sunday U need serious God intervention.
  • Justina Sunday why will you do that in the frist place even me i will nt even ans you that was bad of you, if th mam be love you he for no leave you for another girl so you see it now
  • Itz Oluwaferanmi Pedro u ar at fault in d first place,am sorry 2say,y wil u send ur pix 2ur ex nd tell me there is nothing btw u nd him? Ah! Only God can help u o
  • Divine Agbo Just be prayerfull
  • Taiwo Joy Ogundeji Why on earth would you allow your ex around you again. Haven't you read?? Pray to God and invite both families into this. He may not be able to trust you again..
  • Irene Akum James Martin U re having sleepless nights and ur ex is having blissful nights if u were good enough for him he would have married u. I pray ur soon to be husband find a place in his heart to forgive u
  • Caroline White Omafuayire Sorry just pray for God intervention u are engaged and still communicating with your ex that is happily married why did bring yourself so low before him all you need is pray
  • Chidinma Chijioke That is gud 4 u had it been u are married u wil send naked pics u are sprated from ex while do u hv his contact?
  • Faith Ozoemena Thoroughly is only God that can change his heart again because you draw the rain that beat you pray hard God will help you.
  • Daodu Gbenga You caused the problem for yourself. What intimate relationship do you still have with your ex who did not marry you despite being sexy to him and jumped to other lady. You kicked away your already made meal prepare before you by God. Look at all opportunities you lost as a result of your foolish act. Go and meet God, He is the only potter that can re mode shattered pot.
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  • Enang Enya James And you reply your ex that you miss him too go back and married your ex nau
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  • Klassic Oguntolu You really made a mistake, but I believe you still love that ur ex, if not u wont even have his phone no talklesss of sending ur nude pics to him, please u need to pray very well for God to touch his heart.
  • Grace Daramolafolaranmi There is nothing prayer cannot do
  • Uwadia Gibson Azuka Greed and recklessness. It shows you will not be faithful in the marriage, that is why he is calling it off
  • Mojisola Owoyemi Johnson My dear, please don't see suicide as a way out. If you kill yourself remember, where will you spend eternity? There is no problem greater than God. If you believe in God, trust Him to restore your peace. We all make mistake but you didn't do well by seSee More
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  • Valentine Ujumba Since That Guy Have Not Paid Ur Dowry, Forget It He's Gone That's The Useless Mistake U Ladies Make These Days, Still Keeping The Shadow And Memory Of Ur Ex Life To Destroy The Good And Real Love God Gave U. The Devil Just Send That Guy To Destroy And See More
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  • Princess Joe U should have cut all relationship with your ex's, now see wat Ur ex has done to Ur marriage. Let's both families talk about it but if he refuses,u hv to learn from Ur own mistakes so sorry. But if Na me I will not send anything to him wetin me nerve do even for relationship.
  • Nkwocha Funmilayo What a rubbish story sis you must be a fool nonsense
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  • Okere Caleb Your Mind is still were your ex is, dats y u send the pix, if he is also opportuned to meet u he will have sex with u, there is No doubt about it. You did it intentionally and i can't Call it a mistake,Then if he forgive you take it but if he didn't is not His fault. pray To God To have mercy on you and bringback your loss glory.
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  • Odeh Elizabeth You caused it yourself,maybe your enemies are following you,pray yourself,always be contented with what you have ladies
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  • Adesewo Tosin Why why why just as if our father in the lord knows what is about to happen check the open heaven of today the enemy of Christian pilgrims my questions is this are u really born again if yes as u claim it to be wat has darkness got to do with light hSee More
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  • Savieco Mosieco Accept the bitter truth. He is gone, so pull yourself and move on. If you kill yourself now Satan is waiting for you in hell. Next time don't be stupid.
  • Louis Ijeh Thank God, you said Ex, how can you be going forward and your eyes viewing backward. Asked God for mercy, because you are in for a trouble.
  • Blessing Onyeabor how could allow your ex that is even married ruin your own happiness. chaii
  • Fausat Olayemi Awoleye Osibeluwo My dear sister, it's not humane to judge someone. But to say the fact, you have made a gross mistake. Don't you know that for someone to get a serious guy for marriage this days takes the grace of God. You allowed the devil to intervene in what God hasSee More
  • Ataver Godfrey The deed is done already so it's too late to begin to blame her for her careless mistake. What she need now is the way forward. My sister I suggest you continue to pray and handover everything into God's own hands and see what He will do. Suicide shoulSee More
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  • Chinonso Aguoha My sis what you did was wroug how can your ex ask you to send such picture,so what you are going to do is to pray to god for 4giveness if the man is met for you he will come back to you but dont do such mistakes again. Remeber enagement rings is not wedding .
  • Janet Jacob Y did you do that, you said he
  • Chris Olawale Abiodun You are the cause of your misfortune, olojukokoro
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  • Chris O. Darius You need common sense my dear. You should have at least delete your past now that you have a bright present and your future. You have foolishly ruined your marriage
  • Segun Raufu I thanked God on behalf of your fiancée for exposing your infidelity before you got to his home and began to de fuck your exs up and down and ruined your fiancé life go back to your exs now prositute asewo ole olojukokoro
  • Ajayi Jesutofunmi Salako Pray and continue beg him I know God will help you and forgive you your silly mistake.
  • Dada Folake MY GOD what HAVE YOU DONE. It is God that you ve wrong. Seek for His mercy accept his Chastisement see what will happen .He(ur finance) living u is not the end of ur life .Your maker is not giving up on YOU.
  • Sanni Ajibola Akadiri Wow!!! Thanks all for your sharp and soft comments and advises.
    As for me,I never looked at this this thing in this way you all have seen it,I saw another thing entirely.
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  • Ifesinachi Blessing My sister neither do I condemned you go and sin no more that was what Jesus said to the woman and I want you to know that no body is perfect, you made a very big mistake quite alright but your father is always there to help you, please He is all you nSee More
  • Kemi Olutayo Why would you miss your ex and send him pictures? Ehn.... An ex is a past and we need to let our past go and face our future. Only God can intervene now .Pray to God and wait on Him because this could also be a blessing in disguise. Remember God's ways are not our ways. Accept whatever is the end result and let God's will be done. All will definitely end well.
  • Dandy E. Odoya You just have to learn from this experience in case of another opportunity so that you will not mess up again. Though if you genuinely repent and pray to God there's possiblity that he may come back because the heart of the king is in God's hands
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  • Debbie Classic Dont commit suicide because if you do, you will go to hell and suffer more.
  • Akpa Onyinye Are you a learner
    The your ex is married n you....
    May God help you
  • Esther Ilesanm Ayeni Damilola D DOWNFALL OF A MAN OR A WOWAN ITS NOT D END OF THEIR LIFE,CRY UNTO HIM(GOD)HE WIL INTERVENE INTO UR MATTER SIN NO MORE
  • Esther Ilesanm Ayeni Damilola D DOWNFALL OF A MAN OR A WOWAN ITS NOT D END OF THEIR LIFE,CRY UNTO HIM(GOD)HE WIL INTERVENE INTO UR MATTER SIN NO MORE
  • Sylvester Okolie Emechete You weren't serious about the marriage.
  • Sabastina Oiyehi Pray for God to change his mind, but sister u don't have any business with your ex any longer, since he couldn't marry you while u were dating, just continue praying to God.
  • Honour Odine It is well, the solution is God
  • Chievo Onyeka Is better the man run now before u disgrace him when he take u out of the country this is a leason to you and others change ur ways ur ex has move on u too can move ask god for forgiveness another man will come
  • Victoria Harcourt Martins If you are so special to your so called ex,why did he leave you for another woman,I believe you have learnt your lesson, for your current relationship if you are meant to be together then you will be together you don't have to kill yourself over engagement remember God works in a mysterious ways.
  • Mercy Micheal Egun You were greedy. You ve your marriage coming and you are showing your ex pictures with your night gown. Just go to God in prayers to touch his heart. Becos it hurts
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  • Kim Dave O Actually you will still go back to your vomit had it been your husband to be did not discover anything before wedding, if he is my friend or brother I cannot advice him to take you back cos marriage is everlasting cnvenant or an institution you can't gSee More
  • Prince Onyekachi Nicodemus He's gone for good
  • Kim Dave O Broken courtship is better than broken marriage
  • Nkechi Chime My dear u did wrong,no matter what,u r not supposed to reply that Ur ex,see what you did to your self,u still miss him that means u r not ready for marriage,I pray Ur hubby to be forgives u cuz he doesn't trust u again
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  • Love Mary Patrick Olojukokoro,see wetin u use ur hand cause,e pain me oo ,just pray
  • Victoria Emmanuel It serves you well that's all indication of what your are going to do in his house
  • Omoh Ade This is a lesson to all ladies ,why are we always dwell in our past ?u called somebody ur ex yet u missed him and send him ur picture in night wear ,what is that all about?to continue with him or love .To me it seems u still love him ,take ur time search ur heart on who u truly loved .God will intervene.
  • Daniel Atipo pray to god to help us out because is only god can help u out and keep begging de man seriouly and i pray god will make way for u
  • Kosupo Freeman Benjamin You are a potential Bomb. I supported him 100%
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  • Sewande Elizabeth kill yourself
  • Falana Hollayinka Doris You are the cause of all that happen in your present relationship. You should know that you av no business with ur Ex ( who is even married) not to talk of you sending him a sexy pics, for what now. Anyways, there is nothing too difficult for God, keep praying that God should touch his heart for him to forgive and forget.
  • Olatunji T Adeyinka You are source of your problem, you called him your ex but you send your nakedness to him. That's good for you. I support the guy 100%.
  • Daniel Atipo and go and met ur ex back because u still love him dat why u can go back to ur vomit
  • Regina N Chibiko You see yourself ?
  • Adebimpe Olusola You cause it so continue to be sexy for your ex. He should be able to marry you has second wife. Omo to sexy carry go fool.
  • Osaki Aregbesola Women should always place themselves in other women's shoes...if u were ur ex's wife n u found such pix on ur husband's fon would u like it?... God has given u ur own instead u prefer that which belongs to another may God have mercy on u.
  • Osaki Aregbesola Ur ex's wife must be a prayerful woman next time avoid things that don't belong to u.
  • Benyeogor Augustina My kind advise is that you go back to believer class and start all over again. Because you are not broken. You equally needs deliverance. You don't really know what you want, may the hands of the Lord touch you today in Jesus name.
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  • Rejoice James Ur ex? U are mad
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  • Collins Nwogu Am seeing people saying go back to God in prayer. Fine and good now ask yourself is she a child of God, if yes she won't find herself in this predicament. Secondly is she the right woman for the man, thirdly will she be faithful to the man when he had See More
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  • Shero Hayehne But you goofed
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  • Oloyede Jumoke As a young girl of my knolege is a sin against GOD and MAN so ask God 4 forgiveness since God dat created man he will enter ur husband heart and u will get reconciled dat my solution bcos nobody is 2 be blame
  • Jennifer Tor It's only fasting and praying that can help you.
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    • Omolara Adebayo-Mustapha No amount of fasting will solve this problem sis, this person has to go back to Jesus and start all over again. He's a merciful God, He will forgive..2Chronicles 7V14...
  • Hadedeji Forlarshadey Susan What should I do too? Pls tell your village people to go back nau... I guess it from village people
  • Funke Babalola Don't give up on him, there's time for everything in life
  • Joke Ogunleye You are the achitect of your problem. Start prayer and fasting ask for the forgiveness of your sins. It is only God that can talk to him through the holy spirit.
  • Uzoamaka Ukama You are not normal ex that left you and married another woman and you still chatting with him you have problem
  • Christiana Ukenya May God give him undstnding hrt

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